I think a lot of media that tries to be progressive or about female empowerment falls into the same trap as a lot of Christian media: they ignore the principles of good storytelling and just preach their message directly to the audience.
“Identity” tends to be the least interesting part of a character. Blitzø and Stolas are a same-sex couple, but that’s the least interesting part of their relationship. I like a lot of female characters, but I don’t just like them because “girl power”. I like Marge Gunderson because she’s smart, level-headed, and a good detective. I like Beth Dutton because she doesn’t take shit from anyone, but she’s only confrontational when she needs to be, and uses it to stand up for others.
You don’t announce what you’re doing. you just do it. A girl who sees Izzy welding in “Take Flight in The Marestream” might decide they want to try welding, or go into aerospace.