The bullying did slow down as Spiral grew. Since her confidence did grow, and she appeared more intimidating with age. Thus not needing Prince Dazzle to save her (even if it got her to see him more). Remarks still happened when she became an adult, yet she was not perturbed anymore.
You may wonder that Ember and Thorax’s children got the same treatment, yet unlike Spike, Ember is seen as scary by the younger crowd. Thus defending their children from rude scrutiny. Except from the brave few.
Even though Cadance is happily married with Shining. If you don’t like the couple that spawned Spiral then don’t make a scene about it on one supporting it.
Nothing wrong with that. :) What were you hoping for?