Desires Discussion Thread: Romantic, Psychological, or Otherwise (Possible NSFW).

I want to be in a living situation in which I can live the lifestyle that I desire to have and pursue my lewd interests…

Sometimes i want to live somewhere big, cold, cozy, and out of the way.

I wish I had my own place with a driver’s license so I can go out wherever I want

@ILoveMyoozik  
same

@PonyPon  

 
Same.

I want to be touched. to be felt. to feel back.
 
A cooler skin to meet mine and enjoy the heat i give off as a struggle not to cry.

@PonyPon  
I also want physical affection from a romantic partner.  

@PonyPon  

 
@Meanlucario  

 
I practice meditation and listen to ASMR, while also getting the occasional massage.
 
It’s not great, but it’s better than nothing.
 
Then again, i AM wired differently; I am so empathetic, I get contact highs from people who are genuinely happy around me. Just talking to you all here fills a good portion of my personal requirement for human interaction.

I love being a dom.

I’m pretty okay with being single and a virgin for the rest of my life. I dunno if it’s because I’m asexual, or have a low sex drive/libido, but I don’t like the idea of having to deal with the ickiness and complications of a romantic relationship with another person.
 
Does that make me anti-social?

@Random-Rambling  
Not in itself, but it might contribute to it.

Sometimes, i think a pet would have done me some good when i was younger.
 
Now, it’s almost a surreal experience when i see a sizable non-human like a cat or dog.
 
I guess what I’m trying to say is I’d like a friendly dog.

How important is shared interests in a relationship to you all?

@TheHappySpaceman
 
Having them helps, but you can always find new interests with someone.

@TheHappySpaceman  
Depends on what it is tbh.
 
Mutual respect is more important than sharing interests imo. Respecting that the other one has different interests to you.

@TheHappySpaceman  
Never been in a romantic relationship before, so not sure.

@Zincy  
Just curious. I was thinking how I couldn’t be in a relationship with a girl who doesn’t like/hates rock music, and I was wondering if thinking that makes me shallow.

@TheHappySpaceman  
Don’t know if I would prefer that or mutual respect

The key to a good relationship is at least one person in it needs to have a plush ass.

@Zincy  
Agreed.

@Prince Areo
 
My new girl has about the plushest ass I’ve ever felt.
 
I spend most of my time with my hand in her back pocket when we’re walking.

@Zincy  
Must’ve felt nice.

@Prince Areo
 
It does.
 
Feels even better pressed up against a lot of other things to.

@LightningBolt  

 
Yeah, agreed that mutual respect is important. However, I do have to wonder if having some similar interests would be important. Like, I don’t know, if my girlfriend hated rock and wouldn’t be supportive of my dreams of becoming a successful rock musician, I don’t think I could get along with her.
 
@Zincy  
Damn. Well, I guess me and my ex wouldn’t have worked out. She was self-proclaimed as having a fairly flat ass.
 
Unless… was I the one with the plush ass the whole time?