Brash, impulsive solutions that try to please everyone are a part of her character.
Not by that point. Think about it, by season 8 she wasn’t doing that shit anymore. Because news flash, she grew out of that. I legitimately hate how people just ignore character progression like that with her. I’d be more forgiving toward this stupid writing choice if there was build up to it. Like she’s been trying like crazy to work it out and the wagon trade was like a final resort or something, which is what they did in To Change a Changeling and Uncommon Bond. But no, they just ignore that and just have her do it just because. Again, the episode offers no explanation to why she did what she did, they just had her do it (which the episode low key implies). There’s a word for that kind of writing choice, it’s called Flanderization. It’s like Pinkie just doing random shit for the sake of it, it’s practically ooc.
In short, it was very poorly executed
The fact that Starlight and Trixie get on each other’s nerves because of personality flaws, and that they can fight but still be friends, is what makes their relationship compelling.
I’d agree if the show didn’t show that that’s all their relationship is. See, being at odds as friends is not inherently a bad thing, but if your friendship is nothing BUT that, then there’s a problem. Also the show never gives a legitimate reason for them to remain friends in spite of all the problems nor does it provide a benefit to keeping said friendship. I mean sure there was the whole “we have dark pasts and no one understands us” thing form season 6. But here’s the problem. Starlight doesn’t have the weight on her shoulders, she’s not anxious anymore and she is pretty sociable/approachable by season 8 (hell, I’d argue season 7 is when she was past her social anxiety/ineptitude) and people seem to like her at this point. So at that point there’s no real reason for them to remain friends anymore because not only is there no connection anymore (Starlight’s no longer an outcast and is a better pony) but they don’t seem to remotely enjoy each other’s company. Like they very seldom even get along, if at all. It’s clear that they’re still friends because the script says so
I don’t understand the appeal in a friendship or how it’s compelling if it has nothing but problems. And I know you all are like “every relationship has problems”. And you’re right, but my point is the good needs to outweigh the bad. Or at the VERY least there needs to be a balance, and I’m sorry but the show never presented such a thing. It’s like it’s insisting on there being a healthy relationship in there but never bothers to prove it. And no “making up at the end” doesn’t count if it happens over and over again and nothing is learned by the end of it (it’s like the cycle of abuse but ‘abuse’ is a strong word so it’s more like a cycle of……..uncaringness? Ok the term needs a little work but you get the idea) Honestly I feel like I’m being low key gaslit. Like I’m being shown how their friendship is but I’m basically being told the opposite, which again, causes me to question my sanity lol