@DeathCloud
I don’t think it’s equivalent. Ishigami’s “trauma” is brought on by his own biases, mistakes, and his unwillingness to learn from his mistakes.
Kaguya has her own biases as well, brought on by her upbringing. But she’s willing to challenge these biases, at least sometimes. She’s willing to befriend Chika. She’s willing to help Ishigami, even knowing what people will say about her. She’s willing to be with Miyuki even with everyone and everything is telling her she’s wrong to have those feelings. She’s willing to go outside the path laid down for her (i.e. the bike ep).
Ishigami is not willing to do any of that. He doesn’t care to improve on his own. He’s doesn’t care to have his predispositions challenged, and when they are, he literally cries and goes home instead of learning from his mistakes. Ishigami was “traumatized” by Kaguya and Chika, but he also doesn’t care to understand them.
Also, Kaguya is in the right, sometimes. Of course, she’s wrong to look down on people, and to make insane assumptions about how people think. (Equating offering someone a ride to a confession of love is fucking crazy.) But she should want to help Ishigami, she’s right to want to be intimate with a guy she’s madly in love with, despite what people say. Ishigami is just plain Wrong about his assumptions about the people around him.
Ishagami doesn’t have that other side to him like Kaguya has shown, at least not that we’ve seen. I think people see themselves in him and
assume there’s more to the character (because there’s more to
them than that). But we haven’t seen that yet. As of what’s been shown in the anime, there’s no misunderstanding there. Ishigami is wrong about a lot of people, people aren’t wrong about him. That’s why he’s not a tragic character.
@Holofan4life
Frankly, Holo-sama, I don’t think you appreciate how serious some of
Kaguya-sama’s idea are. There’s plenty of grown men who never grow out of Ishigami’s phase. The idea drilled into Kaguya (that you shouldn’t be emotionally available) done to kids in real life, does not lead not being able to confess. It leads to suicides, and murders. It’s a very debilitating mentality that takes years to fix, if ever.
You can’t have it both ways. You can’t have these very real, very serious ideas and then not expect your audience to take them seriously.
@Holofan4life
No, this is good. Differences of opinion are important, and healthy. We can’t just have circle-jerk threads all the time, like in reddit and twitter.
C’mon, defend your boy.