Vent thread

@NotYourAverageLurker  
people don’t want me and I don’t know why, maybe I am a loser

@HJSDGCE  
I disagree

@Nupie The Hero  
I want you to completely ignore the whole “world hates me” thing, and tell me exactly what you feel are traits that make you think that you would be a “loser”.

@Nupie The Hero  

 
if you call yourself that enough times, you’ll believe it.

Has anyone here actually been in a relationship or had sex?
 
I feel as if my advice doesn’t get taken seriously despite, you know, actually being fairly experienced in this area.

@Nupie The Hero  
And?
 
You feel like a loser which in turn does… Absolutely nothing. You still live your life and you still accomplish things daily. You feel like a winner and nothing changes either.
 
Getting a gal doesn’t make you a winner. Being happy with yourself does. And you don’t claim that you’re a winner in public. It doesn’t matter in the end because no one cares whether or not someone is a “winner”.
 
It’s a useless title. Nothing changes whether you are a winner or loser.

@Zincy  
I’ve never been on a date, never been in a relationship, never had sex. 32 years old.
 
I don’t mind if my family line ends with me and my brothers.

@Zincy  

 
I don’t want to be in a relationship. I want to be happy with myself and what I have.
 
I aim for contentment.

@Zincy  
Maybe it’s because your advice seems a bit… straightforward.  
Although you have experience there, not everyone has felt one way or the other.  
It’s clear that what Nupie is feeling is different from what you felt.
 
We all handle problems how we do. And one can give advice! But don’t expect someone to take your advice and follow it letter to letter.
 
AND STOP READING THAT IN A STEREOTYPICAL TEENAGE ATTITUDE!!!
 
xD that’s right! I read your mind.

@Background Pony #798E  
You’re 32?! O.0

@SirBumpaous  
The year of my birth was 1985. If its 2017 now, I think I got the math right? O.o

@SirBumpaous
 
Actually, I read your lines in more of a mid 30’s new ager voice, as that’s sort of what I associate your mannerisms with.
 
 
@HJSDGCE
 
 
Being content is a decent goal to have.

@Background Pony #798E
 
Huh, someone older than me. That’s refreshing.

@NotYourAverageLurker  
people not giving me a chance, people seeing me as something not important, people ignoring me, people seeing as filler

@Zincy  
0.o  
Are you saying… ya find me mature?

@Zincy  
First one, yes, second one, no.
 
Tho I also don’t think wallowing in self pity for hours is a good idea. And I’m an emo, we made an art out of it.
 
If you don’t like relationship advice, or want to hear about it, or even think about it, just focus on literally anything else right now. Music, video games, tv shows, movies, writing, drawing, whatever makes you happy. Don’t worry about being ‘good’ at anything, just focus on enjoying yourself. Life is a lot less hollow when you find things you whole-heartedly enjoy without any guilt or regret. Even fap all night if I helps, it doesn’t matter.

@Nupie The Hero  
Yes, I know people don’t respond in the way you want them to.
 
What I am asking is what are your own traits that you think might be the cause of all this.

@Background Pony #798E  
P? Right? 0.o  
If so… I always thought you’d be younger. Lol

@HJSDGCE  
… I am not happy and your not making me feel anything happier

@NotYourAverageLurker  
I don’t know, I don’t think any

@SirBumpaous
 
Older does not necessarily equate to maturity.

@Nupie The Hero  
I do not necessarily intend to make you happier with trying to diagnose what you have going against you, but I do intend to help you identify the issue and help you make progress by turning it around.

@Zincy  
You’re confusing me…  
I’ll take that as a no…  
Good. °-°  
I am not mature… yet…
 
I’m only 17. xD still a ways to go before I figure out what I even really want in life.

@NotYourAverageLurker  
I see

@SirBumpaous
 
I’d kill to be 17-18 again.