And back when I was younger I didn’t manage to climax ever, I tired out thinking it was just a matter of rubbing it enough. I didn’t have any imagery to think about or any idea that there was such a thing.
Ok, here’s an interesting question, when and how did you learn to play with yourselves? I learned it when I was about 12-ish and from a movie with suggestive hand movements.
Many cultures, even within themselves, change. What’s masculine for one people is feminine for another. You don’t need to be a genius to figure that out.