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I think it may be dangerous when you think that someone is suffering from something while they say they are doing fine
 
It's okay to have personal assumptions, but being sure in your own ones more than in what a person can tell may lead you to hurting them or by the least not understanding them because of being focused on your own view of how they feel


 
Basically I think it's personally you who feels associations with being lonely which make you feel bad and thus, associating with what you see, make you feel like a person you see must be suffering too, while they may be actually truly okay and it's you who would need to learn to understand why and how they can feel okay in this case with what would make you feel bad if you were in their shoes, in order to understand them well and be able to believe that they can feel really okay/happy with what they have and not like suffering without realizing that


 
Oh also, it wasn't meant as blaming you in something or such, just sharing my thoughts on the subject you brought up, didn't mean that you are bad for thinking the way you think or sthat you actually do judge people like that anyway coz I can't know that

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I think it may be dangerous when you think that someone is suffering from something while they say they are doing fine
It's okay to have personal assumptions, but being sure in your own ones more than in what a person can tell may lead you to hurting them or by the least not understanding them because of being focused on your own view of how they feel

Oh also, it wasn't meant as blaming you in something or such, just sharing my thoughts on the subject you brought up, didn't mean that you are bad for thinking the way you think or such

Basically I think it's personally you who feels associations with being lonely which make you feel bad and thus, associating with what you see, make you feel like a person you see must be suffering too, while they may be actually truly okay and it's you who would need to learn to understand why and how they can feel okay in this case with what would make you feel bad if you were in their shoes, in order to understand them well and be able to believe that they can feel really okay/happy with what they have and not like suffering without realizing that

Oh also, it wasn't meant as blaming you in something or such, just sharing my thoughts on the subject you brought up, didn't mean that you are bad for thinking the way you think or such

"@MintyTwinkles":/images/2486487#comment_9363864
I think it may be dangerous when you think that someone is suffering from something while they say they are doing fine
It's okay to have personal assumptions, but being sure in your own ones more than in what a person can tell may lead you to hurting them or by the least not understanding them because of being focused on your own view of how they feel

Oh also, it wasn't meant as blaming you in something or such, just sharing my thoughts on the subject you brought up, didn't mean that you are bad for thinking the way you think or such

Basically I think it's personally you who feels associations with being lonely which make you feel bad and thus, associating with what you see, make you feel like a person you see must be suffering too, while they may be actually truly okay and it's you who would need to learn to understand why and how they can feel okay in this case with what would make you feel bad if you were in their shoes, in order to understand them well and be able to believe that they can feel really okay/happy with what they have and not like suffering without realizing that

"@MintyTwinkles":/images/2486487#comment_9363864
I think it may be dangerous when you think that someone is suffering from something while they say they are doing fine
It's okay to have personal assumptions, but being sure in your own ones more than in what a person can tell may lead you to hurting them or by the least not understanding them because of being focused on your own view of how they feel, in order to understand them well and be able to believe that they can feel really okay/happy with what they have and not like suffering without realizing that

Basically I think it's personally you who feels associations with being lonely which make you feel bad and thus, associating with what you see, make you feel like a person you see must be suffering too, while they may be actually truly okay and it's you who would need to learn to understand why and how they can feel okay in this case with what would make you feel bad if you were in their shoes, in order to understand them well and be able to believe that they can feel really okay/happy with what they have and not like suffering without realizing that

"@MintyTwinkles":/images/2486487#comment_9363864
I think it may be dangerous when you think that someone is suffering from something while they say they are doing fine
It's okay to have personal assumptions, but being sure in your own ones more than in what a person can tell may lead you to hurting them or by the least not understanding them because of being focused on your own view of how they feel, in order to understand them well and be able to believe that they can feel really okay/happy with what they have and not like suffering without realizing that

Basically I think it's personally you who feels associations with being lonely which make you feel bad and thus, associating with what you see, make you feel like a person you see must be suffering too, while they may be actually truly okay and it's you who would need to learn to understand why and how they can feel okay in this case with what would make you feel bad if you were in their shoes

"@MintyTwinkles":/images/2486487#comment_9363864
I think it may be dangerous when you think that someone is suffering from something while they say they are doing fine
It's okay to have personal assumptions, but being sure in your own ones more than in what a person can tell may lead you to hurting them or by the least not understanding them because of being focused on your own view of how they feel

Basically I think it's personally you who feels associations with being lonely which make you feel bad and thus, associating with what you see, make you feel like a person you see must be suffering too, while they may be actually truly okay and it's you who would need to learn to understand why and how they can feel okay in this case with what would make you feel bad if you were in their shoes