hauntedyouthwonderland asked:
Would you agree with the criticism that Stockholm!Ascentia is too adored by the rest of the characters and rarely ever faces criticism?
lily-peet answered:
Oh hell no. We put Asy through a lot of unsubtle shit from nearly everyone around her.
Sure, while the other characters are more than happy to dote on Ascentia for being adorable and constantly drag her into bedrooms for intimate time, they’ve shown nothing but outright contempt for nearly every decision she’s made throughout the story.
Think about it for a minute. Ascentia was abused physically, emotionally, and sexually by Twilight for years, but makes the conscious decision to endure it on the hopes that she can get Twilight into proper help. This decision pays off and she is successful in doing so.
However, despite that decision working, nearly everyone around her universally declares her to be insane and are constantly erasing the sheer amount of effort and stubbornness she put into it. With an almost casual disregard, too.
Rainbow, Fluttershy, Cielle, Applejack, Rarity, even Sunrise.
“Young lady, do I look like I have ‘gullible’ stamped across my face?” Ascentia snarled.
Sunrise glanced over the scars littering her mother’s face like a constellation map, “…Is this a trick question?”
Even Twilight minimizes her efforts through her constant need to reiterate how she didn’t deserve Ascentia’s forgiveness and how Ascentia was “nuts” to push through it.
The only person who DOESN’T do this is Night Light, who expressed a deep gratitude to Ascentia for what she did for Twilight, and admitted that if it weren’t for her his daughter would probably be dead. Incidentally, Night Light is Ascentia’s favorite person in Twilight’s family and has taken to calling him “Dad.”
Ascentia is overall a very headstrong, stubborn woman who will tear tooth and nail through any obstacle in her way even if it kills her. But she’s treated like a diminutive, battered, mental patient by those closest to her. She’s treated less like the person she IS, and more like the person that statistics say she SHOULD be.
The reality is that the other characters treat Ascentia far worse than they treat genuine scumbags by constantly minimizing and erasing what is, in all honesty, a very impressive and laudable feat.
There’s been a common criticism of this arc from people who have their heads on straight that the way Ascentia deals with her wife’s abuse is a massive anomaly from what is typically presented. Ascentia admits that there’s a problem and doesn’t make excuses for Twilight, but at the same time adamantly refuses to give up asserting that “this shit will not beat me.”
And when it’s all said and done, she seems to be suffering very little negative effects from it. She gets incredibly agitated and anxious if someone other than Twilight calls her “Kitten”, but that’s nowhere near the meltdown that Twilight herself will exhibit if someone utters the phrase “You know better than to hide from Mommy.”
The reason for this is because we didn’t want to be accurate. There wasn’t much value to be gained from portraying a statistically accurate version of domestic abuse. I’ve talked at length before about how that sucks all the humanity out of a story, but it’s also because there’s nothing really to say about domestic abuse. It’s bad, and the people who try to defend it are monsters.
That objectivity meant that there was something more interesting in telling a very unconventional story with a very unconventional dynamic. It’s still condemns abuse, Twilight does eventually get better after all. And the unfortunate implication of Ascentia’s endurance implying that survivors of domestic abuse are somehow weak was caught pretty early and mitigated by highlighting just how ridiculous her ability to absorb pain actually is (Two heart transplants and casually shrugs off bullet wounds among many other things).
This arc doesn’t have anything philosophical to say. It’s just a story about two people. Two complex people that takes the reader on a crazy ride, but at the end of the day it really is that simple.
michelle-kastrilevich asked:
So, my American studies teacher is always trying to push the “understanding the enemy” philosophy. This lead to him assign the class to write an essay defending Jim crow laws in order to learn about “Why did people vote for this” This got me thinking, is it worth it to understand the enemies?
lily-peet answered:
Yes it is worth it.
However, your teacher is making the mistake of assuming we don’t already understand the kind of people who voted for Jim Crow laws: The Klan, the ignorant citizens who believed lies told to them about black people, the socially conservative, and the downright stupid.
You don’t need to pretend to defend Jim Crow laws to do this. Racism has been a focal point of the United States since it’s founding. Pretending that we don’t already understand people like the Klan, the GOP, Neo Nazis, and Conservatives is dishonest at best, and willfully ignorant at worst
Your teacher is making the same mistake that Moderates™ are making in assuming that this is some new breed of racism that we have yet to understand. We do understand them. That’s why we’ve come to the conclusion that they need to die.
My suggestion: Explain the reasoning behind Jim Crow laws, and then immediately condemn it. Just because a lot of people voted for a law doesn’t mean the law is ever going to be a good idea. A lot of people voted for Donald Trump. Electing him was still a terrible idea.