Hey, I don’t know if it’s too late to contribute to this conversation, but just wanted to throw my two cents in.
I guess if I would have to draw an absolute line (and I apologize if this has already been brought up), I think it would be at whether the picture was intended to be a fetish, meant to embarrass/arouse the wearer, and whether it’s just something the wearer just simply enjoys the moment for comfort or safety, for example.
Think of it being like these two scenarios:
Picture 1
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tags: diaper fetish
, non-baby in diaper
, suggestive
Pic: A stallion who clearly is embarrassed and feeling ashamed
because he is dressed in an all frilly dress which is designed
specifically to show off a diaper. He clearly doesn’t not want
the humiliation, but he is forced to one way or another.
Picture 2
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tags: sissy baby
, age regression
, safe
Pic: A stallion dressed in a foalish-designed dress who is sad
and in shock because their toy blocks fell over and they worked
really hard on it! They look comfortable being in this
situation, otherwise.
I tried to have the images as close together as possible in description, but one is clearly made to arouse the viewer and the other is just simply showing littles having wholesome moments together or experiencing some sort of feeling. There needs to be some sort of education about this in the ABDL community as a whole, but it should be an absolute line between a safe
age regression
image vs a suggestive
ageplay
image.
I guess I see it like this:
safe
- Images meant to present a moment or a feeling
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age regression
- NOT ‘ageplay’
incontinent
- alternatively ‘medical incontinence’
suggestive
(+) - Images meant to clearly arouse the viewer
———––
ageplay
- NOT ‘age regression’
diaper fetish
sissy baby
diaper lover
forced regression
- could be lumped in with ‘ageplay’
(Feel free to make suggestions for these lists and I can update accordingly)
But yeah, I’m curious if this helps add to this discussion at all. I can clarify anything I said here.
-SPS