While i do agree with you, i still have say that the whole "love and tolerance" was just some shitty meme which 4chan started, just like how the whole fandom started on that site. It was pretty much just used to annoy jannies there, nothing else. I still don't understand why people use this meme, I don't even believe that this fandom ever had any love and tolerance or shit like that but it also never bothered, i like the fandom the way it is or was at least. Nothing but crazy shit, weird shit, silly shit and tons of porn, the way i like it and the way it should be.
It also makes me wonder why does so many people wonder why the fandom is the way it is. It literally started on 4chan, a site that the media has called a site full of incels, nazis, bullies, bigots, cunts etc. for years. And also how on Aprils fools day they merged /mlp/ and /pol/ boards together. I really don't know what people expected.
Also, what is with people saying that you are supposed to follow the lessons of the show or that we are totally missing the point of all those lessons the show teaches you? Enjoying a show means you are obligated to follow its morals and lessons? Why? I didn't even get into that show because of some fucking morals and lessons, i got into it because of cute fucking characters, animation and songs. I have never watched Steven Universe but pretty sure that show teaches some epic morals and lessons too, still didn't stop their fans from harassing an artist because she didn't draw some characters fat enough. Or whatever Undertale teaches, it still didn't stop their fans from trying to kill an artist by putting needles to a cookies because they didn't like how they shipped certain characters from the game.
Like already said here, what a fucking clown world we live in.