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Valerie Shimmerwing
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Cases like Covington's bring up a worrying issue that most would or should be worried about, considering the relative enhancement of race relations today; and that issue is the drissemination of racism against whites amongst blacks and/or, "[as I have read somewhere":](https://mobile.nytimes.com/2017/11/11/opinion/sunday/interracial-friendship-donald-trump.html), the rise of pessimism amongst blacks that trust in whites is not possible today. It is disheartening to read sections, as quoted from what I cited, such as
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It is impossible to convey the mixture of heartbreak and fear I feel for him. Donald Trump’s election has made it clear that I will teach my boys the lesson generations old, one that I for the most part nearly escaped. I will teach them to be cautious, I will teach them suspicion, and I will teach them distrust. Much sooner than I thought I would, I will have to discuss with my boys whether they can truly be friends with white people.


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Meaningful friendship is not just a feeling. It is not simply being able to share a beer. Real friendship is impossible without the ability to trust others, without knowing that your well-being is important to them. The desire to create, maintain or wield power over others destroys the possibility of friendship. The Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.’s famous dream of black and white children holding hands was a dream precisely because he realized that in Alabama, conditions of dominance made real friendship between white and black people impossible.


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History has provided little reason for people of color to trust white people in this way, and these recent months have put in the starkest relief the contempt with which the country measures the value of racial minorities. America is transfixed on the opioid epidemic among white Americans (who often get hooked after being overprescribed painkillers — while studies show that doctors underprescribe pain medication for African-Americans). But when black lives were struck by addiction, we cordoned off minority communities with the police and threw away an entire generation of black and Hispanic men.[/bq]

 
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Barack Obama’s farewell address encouraged us to reach across partisan lines. But there is a difference between disagreeing over taxes and negotiating one’s place in America, the bodies of your children, your humanity. Our racial wound has undone love and families, and ignoring the depths of the gash will not cause it to heal.


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We can still all pretend we are friends. If meaningful civic friendship is impossible, we can make do with mere civility — sharing drinks and watching the game. Indeed, even in Donald Trump’s America, I have not given up on being friends with all white people. My bi-ethnic wife, my most trusted friend, understands she is seen as a white woman, even though her brother and father are not. Among my dearest friends, the wedding party and children’s godparents variety, many are white. But these are the friends who have marched in protest, rushed to airports to protest the president’s travel ban, people who have shared the risks required by strength and decency.


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There is hope, though. Implicitly, without meaning to, Mr. Trump asks us if this is the best we can do. It falls to us to do better. We cannot agree on our politics, but we can declare that we stand beside one another against cheap attack and devaluation; that we live together and not simply beside one another. In the coming years, when my boys ask again their questions about who can be their best friend, I pray for a more hopeful answer.[/bq]

 
as the issue from the perspective of blacks--supposing the author Ekow N. Yankah, a professor at the Benjamin N. Cardozo School of Law at Yeshiva University, represents a significant portion of the black community--is presented to be a lack of trust, which I think is quite true because, while the African-American civil rights movements have brought blacks to the same platform as whites, trust has not been developed in the aftermath, for with every war, there are repairs and, indeed, not much was repaired.
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Edited by Valerie Shimmerwing
Valerie Shimmerwing
Wallet After Summer Sale -

Cases like Covington's bring up a worrying issue that most would or should be worried about, considering the relative enhancement of race relations today; and that issue is the dissemination of racism against whites amongst blacks and/or, "as I have read somewhere":https://mobile.nytimes.com/2017/11/11/opinion/sunday/interracial-friendship-donald-trump.html, the rise of pessimism amongst blacks that trust in whites is not possible today. It is disheartening to read sections, as quoted from what I cited, such as
[bq]It is impossible to convey the mixture of heartbreak and fear I feel for him. Donald Trump’s election has made it clear that I will teach my boys the lesson generations old, one that I for the most part nearly escaped. I will teach them to be cautious, I will teach them suspicion, and I will teach them distrust. Much sooner than I thought I would, I will have to discuss with my boys whether they can truly be friends with white people.

Meaningful friendship is not just a feeling. It is not simply being able to share a beer. Real friendship is impossible without the ability to trust others, without knowing that your well-being is important to them. The desire to create, maintain or wield power over others destroys the possibility of friendship. The Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.’s famous dream of black and white children holding hands was a dream precisely because he realized that in Alabama, conditions of dominance made real friendship between white and black people impossible.

History has provided little reason for people of color to trust white people in this way, and these recent months have put in the starkest relief the contempt with which the country measures the value of racial minorities. America is transfixed on the opioid epidemic among white Americans (who often get hooked after being overprescribed painkillers — while studies show that doctors underprescribe pain medication for African-Americans). But when black lives were struck by addiction, we cordoned off minority communities with the police and threw away an entire generation of black and Hispanic men.[/bq]
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[bq]Barack Obama’s farewell address encouraged us to reach across partisan lines. But there is a difference between disagreeing over taxes and negotiating one’s place in America, the bodies of your children, your humanity. Our racial wound has undone love and families, and ignoring the depths of the gash will not cause it to heal.

We can still all pretend we are friends. If meaningful civic friendship is impossible, we can make do with mere civility — sharing drinks and watching the game. Indeed, even in Donald Trump’s America, I have not given up on being friends with all white people. My bi-ethnic wife, my most trusted friend, understands she is seen as a white woman, even though her brother and father are not. Among my dearest friends, the wedding party and children’s godparents variety, many are white. But these are the friends who have marched in protest, rushed to airports to protest the president’s travel ban, people who have shared the risks required by strength and decency.

There is hope, though. Implicitly, without meaning to, Mr. Trump asks us if this is the best we can do. It falls to us to do better. We cannot agree on our politics, but we can declare that we stand beside one another against cheap attack and devaluation; that we live together and not simply beside one another. In the coming years, when my boys ask again their questions about who can be their best friend, I pray for a more hopeful answer.[/bq]
as the issue from the perspective of blacks--supposing the author Ekow N. Yankah, a professor at the Benjamin N. Cardozo School of Law at Yeshiva University, represents a significant portion of the black community--is presented to be a lack of trust, which I think is quite true because, while the African-American civil rights movements have brought blacks to the same platform as whites, trust has not been developed in the aftermath, for with every war, there are repairs and, indeed, not muching was repaired.
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Edited by Valerie Shimmerwing
Valerie Shimmerwing
Wallet After Summer Sale -

Cases like Covington's bring up a worrying issue that most would or should be worried about, considering the relative enhancement of race relations today; and that issue is the dissemination of racism against whites amongst blacks and/or, "as I have read somewhere":https://mobile.nytimes.com/2017/11/11/opinion/sunday/interracial-friendship-donald-trump.html, the rise of pessimism amongst blacks that trust in whites is not possible today. It is disheartening to read sections, as quoted from what I cited, such as
[bq]It is impossible to convey the mixture of heartbreak and fear I feel for him. Donald Trump’s election has made it clear that I will teach my boys the lesson generations old, one that I for the most part nearly escaped. I will teach them to be cautious, I will teach them suspicion, and I will teach them distrust. Much sooner than I thought I would, I will have to discuss with my boys whether they can truly be friends with white people.

Meaningful friendship is not just a feeling. It is not simply being able to share a beer. Real friendship is impossible without the ability to trust others, without knowing that your well-being is important to them. The desire to create, maintain or wield power over others destroys the possibility of friendship. The Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.’s famous dream of black and white children holding hands was a dream precisely because he realized that in Alabama, conditions of dominance made real friendship between white and black people impossible.

History has provided little reason for people of color to trust white people in this way, and these recent months have put in the starkest relief the contempt with which the country measures the value of racial minorities. America is transfixed on the opioid epidemic among white Americans (who often get hooked after being overprescribed painkillers — while studies show that doctors underprescribe pain medication for African-Americans). But when black lives were struck by addiction, we cordoned off minority communities with the police and threw away an entire generation of black and Hispanic men.[/bq]
and
[bq]Barack Obama’s farewell address encouraged us to reach across partisan lines. But there is a difference between disagreeing over taxes and negotiating one’s place in America, the bodies of your children, your humanity. Our racial wound has undone love and families, and ignoring the depths of the gash will not cause it to heal.

We can still all pretend we are friends. If meaningful civic friendship is impossible, we can make do with mere civility — sharing drinks and watching the game. Indeed, even in Donald Trump’s America, I have not given up on being friends with all white people. My bi-ethnic wife, my most trusted friend, understands she is seen as a white woman, even though her brother and father are not. Among my dearest friends, the wedding party and children’s godparents variety, many are white. But these are the friends who have marched in protest, rushed to airports to protest the president’s travel ban, people who have shared the risks required by strength and decency.

There is hope, though. Implicitly, without meaning to, Mr. Trump asks us if this is the best we can do. It falls to us to do better. We cannot agree on our politics, but we can declare that we stand beside one another against cheap attack and devaluation; that we live together and not simply beside one another. In the coming years, when my boys ask again their questions about who can be their best friend, I pray for a more hopeful answer.[/bq]
as the issue from the perspective of blacks--supposing the author Ekow N. Yankah, a professor at the Benjamin N. Cardozo School of Law at Yeshiva University, represents a significant portion of the black community--is presented to be a lack of trust, which I think is quite true because, while the African-American civil rights movements have brought blacks to the same platform as whites, trust has not been developed in the aftermath, for with every war, there are repairs and, indeed, nothing was repairs were done.
No reason given
Edited by Valerie Shimmerwing
Valerie Shimmerwing
Wallet After Summer Sale -

Cases like Covington's bring up a worrying issue that most would or should be worried about, considering the relative enhancement of race relations today; and that issue is the dissemination of racism against whites amongst blacks and/or, "as I have read somewhere":https://mobile.nytimes.com/2017/11/11/opinion/sunday/interracial-friendship-donald-trump.html, the rise of pessimism amongst blacks that trust in whites is not possible today. It is disheartening to read sections, as quoted from what I cited, such as
[bq]It is impossible to convey the mixture of heartbreak and fear I feel for him. Donald Trump’s election has made it clear that I will teach my boys the lesson generations old, one that I for the most part nearly escaped. I will teach them to be cautious, I will teach them suspicion, and I will teach them distrust. Much sooner than I thought I would, I will have to discuss with my boys whether they can truly be friends with white people.

Meaningful friendship is not just a feeling. It is not simply being able to share a beer. Real friendship is impossible without the ability to trust others, without knowing that your well-being is important to them. The desire to create, maintain or wield power over others destroys the possibility of friendship. The Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.’s famous dream of black and white children holding hands was a dream precisely because he realized that in Alabama, conditions of dominance made real friendship between white and black people impossible.

History has provided little reason for people of color to trust white people in this way, and these recent months have put in the starkest relief the contempt with which the country measures the value of racial minorities. America is transfixed on the opioid epidemic among white Americans (who often get hooked after being overprescribed painkillers — while studies show that doctors underprescribe pain medication for African-Americans). But when black lives were struck by addiction, we cordoned off minority communities with the police and threw away an entire generation of black and Hispanic men.[/bq]
and
[bq]Barack Obama’s farewell address encouraged us to reach across partisan lines. But there is a difference between disagreeing over taxes and negotiating one’s place in America, the bodies of your children, your humanity. Our racial wound has undone love and families, and ignoring the depths of the gash will not cause it to heal.

We can still all pretend we are friends. If meaningful civic friendship is impossible, we can make do with mere civility — sharing drinks and watching the game. Indeed, even in Donald Trump’s America, I have not given up on being friends with all white people. My bi-ethnic wife, my most trusted friend, understands she is seen as a white woman, even though her brother and father are not. Among my dearest friends, the wedding party and children’s godparents variety, many are white. But these are the friends who have marched in protest, rushed to airports to protest the president’s travel ban, people who have shared the risks required by strength and decency.

There is hope, though. Implicitly, without meaning to, Mr. Trump asks us if this is the best we can do. It falls to us to do better. We cannot agree on our politics, but we can declare that we stand beside one another against cheap attack and devaluation; that we live together and not simply beside one another. In the coming years, when my boys ask again their questions about who can be their best friend, I pray for a more hopeful answer.[/bq]
as the issue from the perspective of blacks--supposing the author Ekow N. Yankah, a professor at the Benjamin N. Cardozo School of Law at Yeshiva University, represents a significant portion of the black community--is presented to be a lack of trust, which I think is quite true because, while the African-American civil rights movements have brought blacks to the same platform as whites, trust has not been developed in the aftermath, for with every war, there are repairs and, indeed, no repairs were done.
No reason given
Edited by Valerie Shimmerwing
Valerie Shimmerwing
Wallet After Summer Sale -

Cases like Covington's bring up a worrying issue that most would or should be worried about, considering the relative enhancement of race relations today; and that issue is the dissemination of racism against whites amongst blacks and/or, "as I have read somewhere":https://mobile.nytimes.com/2017/11/11/opinion/sunday/interracial-friendship-donald-trump.html, the rise of pessimism amongst blacks that trust in whites is not possible. It is disheartening to read sections, as quoted from what I cited, such as
[bq]It is impossible to convey the mixture of heartbreak and fear I feel for him. Donald Trump’s election has made it clear that I will teach my boys the lesson generations old, one that I for the most part nearly escaped. I will teach them to be cautious, I will teach them suspicion, and I will teach them distrust. Much sooner than I thought I would, I will have to discuss with my boys whether they can truly be friends with white people.

Meaningful friendship is not just a feeling. It is not simply being able to share a beer. Real friendship is impossible without the ability to trust others, without knowing that your well-being is important to them. The desire to create, maintain or wield power over others destroys the possibility of friendship. The Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr.’s famous dream of black and white children holding hands was a dream precisely because he realized that in Alabama, conditions of dominance made real friendship between white and black people impossible.

History has provided little reason for people of color to trust white people in this way, and these recent months have put in the starkest relief the contempt with which the country measures the value of racial minorities. America is transfixed on the opioid epidemic among white Americans (who often get hooked after being overprescribed painkillers — while studies show that doctors underprescribe pain medication for African-Americans). But when black lives were struck by addiction, we cordoned off minority communities with the police and threw away an entire generation of black and Hispanic men.[/bq]
and
[bq]Barack Obama’s farewell address encouraged us to reach across partisan lines. But there is a difference between disagreeing over taxes and negotiating one’s place in America, the bodies of your children, your humanity. Our racial wound has undone love and families, and ignoring the depths of the gash will not cause it to heal.

We can still all pretend we are friends. If meaningful civic friendship is impossible, we can make do with mere civility — sharing drinks and watching the game. Indeed, even in Donald Trump’s America, I have not given up on being friends with all white people. My bi-ethnic wife, my most trusted friend, understands she is seen as a white woman, even though her brother and father are not. Among my dearest friends, the wedding party and children’s godparents variety, many are white. But these are the friends who have marched in protest, rushed to airports to protest the president’s travel ban, people who have shared the risks required by strength and decency.

There is hope, though. Implicitly, without meaning to, Mr. Trump asks us if this is the best we can do. It falls to us to do better. We cannot agree on our politics, but we can declare that we stand beside one another against cheap attack and devaluation; that we live together and not simply beside one another. In the coming years, when my boys ask again their questions about who can be their best friend, I pray for a more hopeful answer.[/bq]
as the issue from the perspective of blacks--supposing the author Ekow N. Yankah, a professor at the Benjamin N. Cardozo School of Law at Yeshiva University, represents a significant portion of the black community--is presented to be a lack of trust, which I think is quite true because, while the African-American civil rights movements have brought blacks to the same platform as whites, trust has not been developed in the aftermath, for with every war, there are repairs and, indeed, no repairs were done.
No reason given
Edited by Valerie Shimmerwing