Based on what I’ve heard, you could make a spectrum of “Possibility that the story will make you re-evaluate how you’re supposed to feel about a character”, that goes from “Hallmark Movie” to “Professional Wrestling”.
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According to Adam Savage, keeping a dream journal within reach of your bed, and getting into the habit of writing down some vague details is the secret. He also says that this has diminishing returns and will affect your sleep if you do it too much.