Lewd Talk Thread [NSFW]

@Meanlucario  
Even then, you probably shouldn’t call yourself an incel because people will assume the worst (though I am well aware it used to not be a dirty word). You could just say you haven’t been able to get laid in a while.

@Registered Anon  
I’ve never had sex period.

@Meanlucario
 
Then say that. Nobody actually cares if you’re a virgin.

@Random-Rambling  
I honestly never had sex either.

I’m curious, how many of you are virgins by choice, and how many of you are by happenstance?

@Zincy  
Suffice it to say a sense of adventure was never instilled in me, and it’s hard to shift gears after so long.
 
Though the option was there.

@Zincy  
For me it’s a mixture of both. I just don’t get out much and a lot of the friends I’ve had wouldn’t be compatible anyway.

@Zincy
 
Mostly th first, but a little of the second. For a while, I thought I might have been asexual.

@Zincy  
With me, it’s mostly happenstance, for several reasons. You can PM me more a bit about why if you want.

@Zincy  
Both. I’m waiting for marriage for sex, but I’d also love to be hitched by now, for the sex and other stuff.

@Zincy  
Not sure what you mean by happenstance. If I get the chance to do it, I’d love to. But I’m not desperate or anything.

@Zincy  
I’ve done it with escorts a few times but that’s it, never had an actual girlfriend or fling. Not particularly proud of resorting to doing so (unlike a lot of people that post every explicit detail) but it’s still better than still being a virgin.

@Zincy  
Happenstance-ish. Was a choice for a while, then COVID hit and I can’t be bothered now.

Quite the variety of responses.
 
I was curious to see the range of reasoning. I’m glad no one was like “because all women are awful” or some other angry incel reasoning.

Just never got to meet my ex in person and I have no interest in anyone else. Shrug.

@Zincy  
Nah, in my case I’ve always been an introvert and just finally decided to bite the bullet. No “I hate all women” tendencies here.

@Background Pony #765D  
I’m an introvert myself, and far from hate women.

@Zincy  

 
I live in a Conservative middle Eastern Country, I pretty much only had online Relationships because of this

@Zincy  
I’ve just never had the opportunity for a real relationship like that.

@Zincy  
I’ve ended up hating the couple of girlfriends I’ve had,but it wasn’t so much anything wrong with them,as much as I just prefer being alone.

@Zincy  

 
I’ve hired one escort back when Backpage.com was still up. And I’ve had one online relationship. That’s it.

For those who are having difficulties, what is the reasons you believe such?
 
 
This is a topic I find fascinating to broach from time to time. It helps people explore their insecurities, particularly the sexual ones.

@Zincy  
Other than the virus, rarely left the house other than family events or to hang out with friends.

I wouldn’t say I’m having difficulties since I never made it a priority.