Yeah, one of two things always happens.
Either I’ll assume someone secretly has a grudge against me when they’re just making remarks, and keep behaving intimidated by them until they do finally hate me; or, alternately, I’ll assume someone likes me when they do actually hate me, and they never tell me until it’s too late for me to do anything about it.
Like, I’m not a mind reader. Don’t act passive-aggressive and expect me to magically know why. If you have a problem with me, you can take it up directly with me.