(Note, I am pretty much the main one that takes care of my aunt’s ride.)
So, car has been making a little squealing noise as of late. Family helps investigate. Mother insists that one of the reservoirs is something other than coolant. I keep telling her she’s wrong and she still persists. Lose composure, begin yelling at her for not listening to me, though I do say things I do regret. She then goes on a tangent as to how I’m a disrespectful kid and I might as well leave the house if I want to raise my voice like that, how I’m just an ungrateful brat and wonders why I don’t talk to people on the street like that, and says something along the lines of “if your grandfather was your father, he’d throw a chair at you for just raising his voice to him”
I can’t tell if I’m an arse or my mom’s a control freak. Anyone can give advice?