I just don't like it when people use the "joke" excuse to make me think something is funny when it's not. And yes, I get that nobody is forcing me but that's how I am.
Especially in shipping, which it's now everyone's least favorite in terms of non-romance/non-SoL content. I mean I don't really want Deku to end up alone.
I rather watch Jacksfilms or other funny stuff on social media if I want jokes that are funny.