Well try to be the friend that you need anyway. Statically people suck and don't know it.
Our hunter gatherer lives are changing faster than our brains can't deal. I'm not great with impulse either. I'm averaging 6 hours of YouTube a day lately. My limbic system thinks all this Youtube is good for me, my outer brain knows something is wrong. I'm back to fighting myself.
Maybe control is just an illusion. I always feel like I hate life, but I'm scared to die. What a wonderful fucked up balence that nobody in this world prepares you for. Fear is penultimate driving force of life, only succeeded by pure impulse.
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