You know, I’ve always just wanted people to like me. I’ve joined so many different discord servers, mostly MLP ones and usually everyone always ends up hating me and I end up getting banned or I’ll leave when I see I’m no longer wanted. I’m a very strongly opinionated person who struggles with depression and having a clear state of mind. My mind constantly races, thinking about the past, all the people I’ve lost. I wish most people here could look to me and go;
“that’s a good friend to have, someone who’s got their shit on lock”
And it’s not so much that I wanna be the center of attention, I just wanna make a difference in other peoples lives, I wanna leave a positive impact. I wanna be someone people can talk to and trust and feel safe around. I’ve been through a lot of pain and heart ache in my life and it’s altered me in a lot of ways. I’m extremely defensive and closed off and I don’t like being vulnerable around others so I’ll usually lash out in aggression before admitting that I’m hurt because everytime in the past that I’ve shown vulnerability people have used it to hurt me. It’s taught me that being weak isn’t acceptable and part of me despises weak people, people that wear their hearts on their sleeves and act like everything is horrible and awful 24/7. I don’t want to feel this way but it’s just been so ingrained into my way of thinking from years of psychological abuse that I’ve endured.
I just want to be a good person.