[Dark] Depression/Suicides within the fandom (The revival)

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so, i have my best friend and boyfriend david from 2 years, the thing is that he is trying to break up for over a month of 2 now, in always triying to not let that happend, im doing everything i can to not end a 2 year relationship, but im just getting sick of his bs, he has superiority complex, he always wants to be superior, and it gets very angry when i have an opinion different that theirs, so if he ends me he will treathen me whit telling secrers to my parents if i dont give him all my steam stuff, he wants to steal my 2 ocs (that mocks me the most) and claim them as theirs, and he its constantly insulting me, blocking me when i have an avantage in the discussion, while i just ingore what he says, i forgive them later, i ask him to not say certain words and try to have a civilized talk, but he never listens, everything is him him him, and i always have the fault of every problem  
so, in one hand, i dont want to end this 2 year relationship, but in the other, im really sick of this constant abuse, i havent sleep all night, its 7;05am, cant sleep, mind too busy triying to figure out what to do
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so, i have my best friend and boyfriend david from 2 years, the thing is that he is trying to break up for over a month of 2 now, in always triying to not let that happend, im doing everything i can to not end a 2 year relationship, but im just getting sick of his bs, he has superiority complex, he always wants to be superior, and it gets very angry when i have an opinion different that theirs, so if he ends me he will treathen me whit telling secrers to my parents if i dont give him all my steam stuff, he wants to steal my 2 ocs (that mocks me the most) and claim them as theirs, and he its constantly insulting me, blocking me when i have an avantage in the discussion, while i just ingore what he says, i forgive them later, i ask him to not say certain words and try to have a civilized talk, but he never listens, everything is him him him, and i always have the fault of every problem
so, in one hand, i dont want to end this 2 year relationship, but in the other, im really sick of this constant abuse, i havent sleep all night, its 7;05am, cant sleep, mind too busy triying to figure out what to do
 
Sounds like it isn’t working out as a romantic relationship, assuming you’ve tried talking things out with him.
 
I’m hardly an expert on relationships, but I say break up with him and get some distance, constant closeness can bring out the worse in people, then hopefully you can still be friends. You don’t want to be with someone who is flat out abusive
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I’m not much of a relationship guru either, but I think you deserve someone who makes you happy. I mean yes, all relationships will have bad patches and rocky moments, but if the main thing keeping you together is the concern that you’ve invested too much time into it to quit, than you don’t really have a relationship. Especially if it is, as you said, all about him.
 
I think there is a point when you do have to look at what you have and ask what, if anything, you are getting out of it. It is not selfish to do so, nor does it make you a bad person for wanting that. A good relationship will be as much about you as the person you are with, and if you are the only one giving to keep the relationship alive, then quite frankly you deserve more.
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welp, for me is more easy to not break up and keep triying over and over again, for him is the oposite, and even if i just leave him, how can i counter all the bad thinks he wants to do? ruining my life and all?  
also, i have talked to him all day of every day in those 2 years, and from one day to another, he inst there anymore, i will feel a deep emptyness and i dont think i would take it so well  
pd: im not from the us or uk, so, sorry for multiples grammar errors
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“blocking me when i have an avantage in the discussion, while i just ingore what he says” that’s an extremely unhealthy way to communicate.
 
“when I haven an advantage in the discussion” implies that you think of arguments like a battle, where you must win. That’s not healthy. You should try to understand him, seek for common ground and understanding, not dominion. Discussions should never be about two people trying to “win” against the other - it should be two people trying to work together to better understand each other and the issue, and see it from a new perspective, and arrive at a mutual understanding.
 
When the other person is talking, instead of trying to formulate a response to “win” the argument, you should try to understand them and where they’re coming from, why they think what they do.
 
 
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“I will feel a deep emptyness” like all of us who are single? Heh, okay, I don’t mean to be rude, but in all honesty, if what you’re saying is an accurate description of what’s happening, then it’s a pretty bad situation, and you shouldn’t put up with someone who’s abusive.
 
I’m all for working on relationships and making them work despite whatever comes up, but you make the other guy sound like a jerk, and like he wants to end it, and is constantly taking advantage of your unwillingness to do so. This sounds like a terribly unhealthy relationship, and if he isn’t going to want to be a part of it, if he isn’t going to even want to improve things - nevermind even trying, then I don’t see what the point in continuing is.
 
 
Seriously, I think there’s a huge problem in the world today that people think that love is a feeling you have for another person. I don’t think that’s accurate at all, when it comes to the deep love that holds a relationship together. That is hormones and nothing more, and creates this exact kind of situation. True love is selflessness, wanting to sacrifice for the other’s behalf, and many years of commitment, and it must have some degree of mutuality. If the other person doesn’t want to be a part of the relationship, then it’s their loss, but you shouldn’t try to coerce or force someone into it, or to keep in it. Find someone more deserving of your love.
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first, i always try to understand him, i always see stuff from his point of view, but he never listens, he dosent acept my opinion, or my argument, everything its my fault, do there is a moment when i got sick of it and i try to make a war whit him, when we discuss i dont use insults, i dont use mayus, i dont use word like “lmao, gtfo, etc” im always have a neutral tone, objetive answers, but he does the oposite, so it anoys me, i ask him to stop doing that so we can have a civilizated talk, but he never listens, but there is a moment when i got sick of it, i lost control and i go down to his level, insulting and using caps, those are rare cases, but happens, and those cases dosents lats more than 5 minutes, i regain control after a while
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Sounds like a horrible “relationship”. A significant other should be relaxing and blissful to be around, not a constant stress. It should resemble happy Fluttermac pictures, not internet arguments with idiots (just bumped out of one of those, myself…).
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there was a time when it was a good relationship, very good one, both of us were happy, no hard discussions, but he changed in some way, and in triying to bring him back, im doing everything that i can do, i wont surrender this easy, he is like, too lazy and so he always goes the easy way on everything, and its more easy for him to just end instead to make an effort to get this relation to keep working, he recently gave me the argument that one of the reasons he wants to end its because im too “normie”  
like, rly bro?, rly?
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welp, for me is more easy to not break up and keep triying over and over again, for him is the oposite, and even if i just leave him, how can i counter all the bad thinks he wants to do? ruining my life and all?
I may be misreading this, but if a big concern over a breakup is “this person will ruin my life/try to hurt me” for doing so, then it’s even more a situation you are better off getting away from. Because a relationship based on fear is not a relationship. It is captivity.
 
 
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also, i have talked to him all day of every day in those 2 years, and from one day to another, he inst there anymore, i will feel a deep emptyness and i dont think i would take it so well
I get that, honestly. But you are not this guy’s therapist either. A healthy partnership has some give and take to it. Some point where he listen to your problems and helps support you when you need it. There are people out there who will listen to you and you deserve to be heard just as much as they do. But you have to be willing to take that step.
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welp, for me is more easy to not break up and keep triying over and over again, for him is the oposite, and even if i just leave him, how can i counter all the bad thinks he wants to do? ruining my life and all?
also, i have talked to him all day of every day in those 2 years, and from one day to another, he inst there anymore, i will feel a deep emptyness and i dont think i would take it so well
pd: im not from the us or uk, so, sorry for multiples grammar errors
 
Ah that does make things trickier. I found this https://www.quora.com/I-cant-break-up-with-my-boyfriend-because-he-threatens-to-expose-a-family-secret-emotional-blackmail-How-does-one-get-through-this-dilemma .
 
I can’t say for sure what the solution is, but the first reply sounds on the money
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