Yeah, I’m very sorry you got caught up in all of this. The entire situation was just a major disaster, and they fooled a lot of people, myself included.
Also, the thread wasn’t closed to the drama, it was closed because several people kept going to stalker-level extremes to “research” ruby, and when they start posting personal, private info, that becomes a major issue.
She couldn’t bare to come back to something she was once thinking of leaving behind. It’s a deal of self Dishonor in ones mind. I support her decision to stay away for a while. She’s still healing from events of her past. The drama to be had here is not a positive to be seen.